Increasing your effectiveness with EFT, part 109. In the realm of emotional healing, particularly when working with Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT), there’s a common assumption that the ultimate goal is to forgive those who have wronged us. Today I’d like to talk about the idea that forgiveness doesn’t have to be the end goal. Many times, …
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Many people (myself included) often spend a lot of mental energy thinking about how much better things would be if only something different had happened in the past. For example, if only a different presidential candidate had been elected; if only things had worked out with a previous romantic partner, etc. These thoughts can drain our energy, …
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Increasing your effectiveness with EFT, part 108. Many people (myself included) often spend a lot of mental energy thinking about how much better things would be if only something different had happened in the past. For example, if only a different presidential candidate had been elected; if only things had worked out with a previous romantic partner, …
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In EFT there’s a technique called “Reframing”, where practitioners attempts to offer a different “more empowering” perspective and/or try to put a positive spin on the issue the client is tapping on (but it’s coming from the practitioner and not from the client). Today I’d like to talk about some of the risks with using …
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Increasing your effectiveness with EFT, part 107. In EFT there’s a technique called “Reframing”, where practitioners attempts to offer a different “more empowering” perspective and/or try to put a positive spin on the issue the client is tapping on (but it’s coming from the practitioner and not from the client). Today I’d like to talk …
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I like to constantly reflect on different ways to express what it is that EFT Tapping does and how it works. This is useful both for explaining the process to my clients, but it’s also useful to me as a practitioner to better understand what we do and why. Today I’d like to share a …
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Increasing your effectiveness with EFT, part 106. I like to constantly reflect on different ways to express what it is that EFT Tapping does and how it works. This is useful both for explaining the process to my clients, but it’s also useful to me as a practitioner to better understand what we do and …
As EFT practitioners, we can use EFT Tapping to assist clients facing life-changing decisions when they feel torn. I’m talking about decisions like staying at their current job or taking a new one; staying with their current romantic partner or ending the relationship, etc. Because as human beings none of us know exactly what is going …
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Increasing your effectiveness with EFT, part 105. As EFT practitioners, we can use EFT Tapping to assist clients facing life-changing decisions when they feel torn. I’m talking about decisions like staying at their current job or taking a new one; staying with their current romantic partner or ending the relationship, etc. Because as human beings none …
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As an EFT practitioner, knowing what to ask my clients after each round of tapping, when we pause to reassess, is very important. Today, I’d like to share the question I find most effective in my practice.