Month: December 2023

Why Do We ‘Affirm the Negative’ When Doing EFT?

Increasing your effectiveness with EFT, part 99. A recent question on an online forum sparked my interest: Why do we ‘affirm the negative’ when doing EFT? Isn’t that reinforcing the thoughts and feelings that we don’t want? Why don’t we just affirm what we want instead? I’d like to address these very valid concerns in today’s article. …

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Video: Giving Voice to the Different Parts of Yourself With EFT

Have you ever felt that a strong reaction to something wasn’t entirely ‘you’? Maybe it was like a younger, more vulnerable part of yourself took over. This is what we often call being ‘triggered,’ and it’s usually a ‘part’ of us that feels this way. Understanding and working with these parts of ourselves can lead …

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Giving Voice to the Different Parts of Yourself With EFT

Increasing your effectiveness with EFT, part 98. Have you ever felt that a strong reaction to something wasn’t entirely ‘you’? Maybe it was like a younger, more vulnerable part of yourself took over. This is what we often call being ‘triggered,’ and it’s usually a ‘part’ of us that feels this way. Understanding and working …

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Video: Different Ways of Testing Our Results with EFT – Detailed Mental Review

When doing EFT (either by ourselves or with a client), it’s important to test our results. This is because of two reasons: 1) it can help us confirm that we have indeed made some progress; 2) it can help us be more thorough by uncovering emotionally charged aspects that still need to be tapped on …

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Different Ways of Testing Our Results with EFT: Detailed Mental Review

Increasing your effectiveness with EFT, part 97. When doing EFT (either by ourselves or with a client), it’s important to test our results. This is because of two reasons: 1) it can help us confirm that we have indeed made some progress; 2) it can help us be more thorough by uncovering emotionally charged aspects …

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