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Video: How To Use EFT To Avoid Suffering Trying To Control The Uncontrollable

What do I mean by “suffering is trying to control the uncontrollable”? This phrase comes from a quote by Greek philosopher Epictetus, who said: “Suffering arises from trying to control what is uncontrollable, or from neglecting what is within our power”. External events are beyond our control, but we are responsible for our own actions. Similarly, …

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How to use EFT to improve your personal boundaries – How to avoid suffering trying to control the uncontrollable

Increasing your effectiveness with EFT, part 45. There are many ways to define what a personal boundary is. One definition that makes sense to me is that our personal boundaries, among other things, allow us to: say “no”, accept being told “no” in a graceful way, and avoid suffering trying to control the uncontrollable. Today I’ll …

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Video: How to use EFT to improve your ability to gracefully accept hearing “no” from other people

There are many ways to define what a personal boundary is. One definition that makes sense to me is that our personal boundaries, among other things, allow us to: say “no”, accept being told “no” in a graceful way, and avoid suffering trying to control the uncontrollable. Today I’ll talk about how to use EFT to …

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How to use EFT to improve your personal boundaries – accepting when other people say “no”

Increasing your effectiveness with EFT, part 44. There are many ways to define what a personal boundary is. One definition that makes sense to me is that our personal boundaries, among other things, allow us to: say “no”, accept being told “no” in a graceful way, and avoid suffering trying to control the uncontrollable. Today I’ll …

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Video: How to use EFT to improve your personal boundaries – saying “no”

There are many ways to define what a personal boundary is. One definition that makes sense to me is that our personal boundaries, among other things, allow us to: say “no”, accept being told “no” in a graceful way, and avoid suffering trying to control the uncontrollable. Today I’ll talk about how to use EFT to …

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How to use EFT to improve your personal boundaries – saying “no”

Increasing your effectiveness with EFT, part 43. There are many ways to define what a personal boundary is. One definition that makes sense to me is that our personal boundaries, among other things, allow us to: say “no”, accept being told “no” in a graceful way, and avoid suffering trying to control the uncontrollable. Today I’ll …

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Video: What if you are tapping on a specific event and suddenly a global statement comes up?

As we know, one of the best ways to make sure that we are tapping in a focused and targeted way is to tap on specific events (past memories or future made up scenarios), which act as “table legs” that are keeping our issues or “tabletops” in place. That is the “tabletop and table legs” …

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What if you are tapping on a specific event and suddenly a global statement comes up?

Increasing your effectiveness with EFT, part 42. As we know, one of the best ways to make sure that we are tapping in a focused and targeted way is to tap on specific events (past memories or future made up scenarios), which act as “table legs” that are keeping our issues or “tabletops” in place. …

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The Hollywood movie script analogy to go from a global issue to a specific event

Increasing your effectiveness with EFT, part 41. A few weeks ago I wrote about the analogy of “table legs and tabletops” in EFT, which allows us to distinguish between a general/global issue (the “tabletop”) and the emotionally charged memories that help keep it in place (the “table legs”). In this analogy, a “tabletop” is a global or …

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