EFT

How to use EFT to improve your personal boundaries – accepting when other people say “no”

Increasing your effectiveness with EFT, part 44. There are many ways to define what a personal boundary is. One definition that makes sense to me is that our personal boundaries, among other things, allow us to: say “no”, accept being told “no” in a graceful way, and avoid suffering trying to control the uncontrollable. Today I’ll …

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How to use EFT to improve your personal boundaries – saying “no”

Increasing your effectiveness with EFT, part 43. There are many ways to define what a personal boundary is. One definition that makes sense to me is that our personal boundaries, among other things, allow us to: say “no”, accept being told “no” in a graceful way, and avoid suffering trying to control the uncontrollable. Today I’ll …

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What is most noticeable about it now? A question to detect “shifting aspects” after a round of tapping

Increasing your effectiveness with EFT, part 5. As we discussed in Part 1 of these series, “shifting aspects” is something that happens frequently after we complete one or more rounds of tapping. Let’s say that you are originally focusing on a certain aspect of a “specific event”, such as “the way he looks at me” …

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